I think it's pretty normal, once you have a second child, to compare them to the first. I have tried not to do this, and failed miserably. One thing we here all of the time is how big Asher is. Yes, he is a big little boy. But, people seem shocked that Annika was also a big baby. As a matter of fact she was bigger than Asher when she was born. I like these two pictures because it does show how similar they are. I know Asher's blanket is covering his face (it's really the only way he will sleep), but I still think you can get a good idea of what I mean. Asher's picture was taken right at 6 months. Annika's was a few weeks before she turned 6 months. Big, small, whatever. They are both cute and we love them to pieces!